Young LawyersFinding Your MentorMany organizations offer programs that connect young lawyers with more experienced colleagues. A bit of wisdom can help you shape your new career! by Craig Silverman |
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A little over a year ago, a Ghanaian man facing deportation walked into lawyer Marie Aziz’s Montreal office and pleaded with her to help him stay in the country. “I felt bad for him because he was so upset,” says Aziz, who runs a solo practice dealing with family and immigration law.
When the man later left Canada voluntarily – without paying her fees – Aziz dialed her mentor, Robin Schiller, a partner in the general practice firm of Handelman, Handelman & Schiller, to seek advice about billing practices.
“She worked by herself and had no one to reach out to,” Schiller recalls of her mentee. That day she helped Aziz determine how much to ask clients for upfront. “She told me what’s a reasonable amount to request for different types of cases,” Aziz says. “She said that some can get complicated and to not be shy about what it will cost and to get an advance.”
Mentors act as something of a professional parent. Being able to pick up the phone, have a meeting or send an email to a mentor in a time of need can be of great help and comfort for someone starting out in the legal profession. A mentor can be a source of contacts and connections early in a career, and they can also provide the perspective of someone who has been through similar situations.
“The direction from the Bar is that we’re not supposed to give legal advice,” she says. “You’re only hearing half the story or a quarter of the story [from your mentee]. If you’re not the one living with the file then you shouldn’t give advice.”
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People often gravitate towards mentors of the same sex, but research suggests this isn’t necessarily the best strategy.
A 2002 study of women in graduate school conducted by
Dr. Faith-Anne Dohm at Fairfield University, in Connecticut,
found no difference in performance between women who had female
mentors and those who worked with men. The bottom line is
that simply having a mentor increases your chance of enjoying
a successful career, so find a mentor that matches your career
path and focus, rather than your gender.