Making Connections
They are strugglingIf you are hoping that everyone who works in the industry will welcome you and be willing to help, you may be disappointed. Instead of getting fabulous career advice or job leads, you may be left feeling discouraged about the career and thinking you should consider doing something else with your life. Tag and Catherine Goulet |
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Someone who is struggling in a career may have spent years in the profession without achieving the kind of success they had hoped for. This type of person may try to “help” you by pointing out the “reality” of the profession you want to work in. They will tell you that at least 80% of those who enter their field will drop out or never achieve great success.
But that’s true for the vast majority of careers. In a recent issue of Harvard Magazine, it was reported that the average person will have six different careers in their lifetime, which means the average person will leave five careers. Why let that stop you from following your heart now?
Another reality is that virtually every career – from acting to real estate – has only a few people who reach the top. It is insulting for someone to assume you will not be one of the successful ones. However, someone who has not made it to the top themself after years of struggle simply may not be able to see how a newcomer can.
If you can overlook their discouraging attitude, this person may actually be able to help by filling you in on industry jargon, types of employers, and other career information. Just don’t waste your time trying to convince them that you will succeed where they haven’t.
They have a scarcity consciousness
People with a scarcity consciousness believe there will be less work for them if more people enter the profession. They see newcomers as potential competitors and will do what they can to discourage others from entering the field.
The moderator of a message board for one career said in response to our recent posting that if everyone who wanted to enter the career actually did so, “it would stop being a fab job for everyone else as there would be very few who could ever make a living doing this.”
Fortunately, there are people in every industry who have not only achieved success, but are willing to help others do the same. As Mark Twain said, “Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions. Small people always do that, but the really great ones make you feel that you, too, can become great.”
Tag and Catherine Goulet are authors of Dream Careers and founders of FabJob.com. Visit www.FabJob.com to discover your dream career.
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